In a recent interview on Oyinmomo TV’s YouTube channel, veteran Yoruba actress Ayo Mogaji sparked a heated debate with her candid remarks regarding women and motherhood in today’s society.
As a celebrated figure in the Nigerian film industry, she has built a name for herself not just through her impressive performances but also through her willingness to tackle social issues. Now, she’s igniting conversation around marriage and motherhood for women approaching the age of 35.
Having appeared in numerous films and television series, including iconic Yoruba dramas like “Agbara Nla” and “Omo Iya Oba,” Mogaji has captivated audiences with her remarkable talent and charisma. With a career spanning decades, she has become a role model for aspiring actresses, showcasing both strength and vulnerability in her roles. However, it’s her recent comments that have captured the public’s attention and stirred controversy.
During her interview, Mogaji shared her observations about the pressure single women face as they approach the age of 35. She expressed concern for those who prioritize career advancement and personal achievements over family life. While she acknowledged that success in one’s career is crucial, she emphasized the ticking clock that many women deal with as they navigate their 30s.
Mogaji’s bold assertion that women who remain unmarried by 35 should consider having a child, even with a man who may not be ready for fatherhood has drawn both applause and criticism. Her words were clear:
“A woman who can’t find a husband at age 35 should get pregnant for any man to have a child.”
For Mogaji, the essence of womanhood is rooted in motherhood, and she believes it should not be sacrificed in the pursuit of an elusive perfect partnership.
Her statement brings to light the societal pressures that women endure, particularly in cultures where marriage and motherhood are often seen as quintessential milestones in a woman’s life. Mogaji noted that dating for women in their late 30s and early 40s can be fraught with challenges, as societal perceptions shift and the available pool of partners may seem limited.
In illustrating her point, Mogaji referenced the realities of modern relationships, where many men may not view women over 35 in the same light as younger counterparts. She cautioned that time moves quickly and warned women about the potential regret of delaying motherhood for the sake of waiting for the ideal relationship or partner.
This advocacy for single motherhood has stirred conversations about women’s choices and the societal expectations that often accompany them. Critics argue that her advice may reinforce stereotypes about women being defined solely by their ability to bear children, while supporters contend that it offers a practical solution for women who desire to start families regardless of marital status.
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